We might think that once people become successful, their self-doubt disappears.  That’s just not true.  

What’s your definition of successful?  You get to decide.  Just know that self-doubt is part of the success recipe.  It’s uncomfortable.  It doesn’t feel like rainbows 🌈 and sunshine ☀️ Pursuing our dreams feels like baking this big beautiful cake 🎂 frosted with self-doubt.  

There’s no entitlement in having a great life.  But, we are entitled to the strength it takes to overcome obstacles on the way to our dream cake life.  ❤️

Being already great at self-doubt is great news.  It means that you can also doubt your self-doubt.

When the self-doubt pops up just know that it’s a choice.  We can choose that frosting 🧁 or not.  Choose that thought or not.  Choose what we want to think about it.  But, the cake will have frosting.  What type is up to you.  

Having big goals will make our brains go wild.  That’s its job to doubt, it’s just trying to protect us from danger.  It’s like baking cupcakes 🧁 for your whole lifetime career and now you have this wild idea to make a fancy decadent cake.  

Self-doubt is just part of the growth.  Embrace the frosting.  It’s part of the cake.  

The most important relationship we’ll ever have is the relationship with ourselves.

Past, present and future.